Seducing a Woman with Words by Lucas Lautier

Discover what kind of writing behaviour will make her crazy for you.

The examples in Seducing A Woman With Words will be as real as can be and modelled on real conversations. All of the extracts from discussions which will be presented to you are not made up but rewritten versions of, or strongly inspired by, my past conversations: everything is authentic (except the names used for obvious confidentiality reasons).

50 Examples of Seducing a Woman with Words

#1 Goodbye Friendzone

I would struggle to believe anyone who told me they’d never been friendzoned. We have nearly all found ourselves in this uncomfortable situation: the one where you try to go further with a girl just to be kindly rejected because you’re “just friends”.

We’ve all sent this awkward text which ended in a painful failure.

John’s mistakes

Let’s analyse why our friend ended up in the FZ (friendzone).

First of all, John decided to explicitly express his attraction to Marie. I’m not saying that it would never work, but I would save this kind of declaration for high schoolers. With time and experience, attraction expresses itself through actions, an attitude, a real compatibility.

John decided to become friends with Marie despite clearly always wanting to sleep with her. John waited too long before making a pass at her. John talks to Marie as if he’s chatting with a friend, the conversation is smooth and monotonous, he isn’t flirting with her but simply chatting with her. He doesn’t realise that you can’t pull a women by asking “how was your day?”.

Who really is John? Don’t get me wrong, our friend seems to have bad luck with women. Maybe he slept with a girl 6 months ago (and it seems it wasn’t great) or maybe he’s still a virgin.

In reality, the fact that he perpetually ends up in the FZ reveals a pretty precise psychological profile.

John is of a shy nature, introverted. He thinks that the fact that he sends a few signals is enough to get Marie into bed. A daring emoji and he thinks he’s taken a huge step.

But deep down, John considers himself a nice guy, he could even qualify as “the perfect boyfriend”. He doesn’t understand why women are always attracted to those they refer to as “assholes”.

When he sees his crush suffering at the hands of another man, he advises her to leave him on the spot, hoping that, deep down, she’ll realise that he’s the nice guy she was looking for all along. Understand that I have nothing against John. He’s a decent, friendly and resourceful guy. He’s just struggling with seduction and all that is about to change, thanks to this course split into 7 lessons.

Besides, John is kind, but not only that. He’s smooth. He’s always following the woman’s lead because he’s intimidated by women. Feminine beauty dazzles him so much that he puts women on a pedestal.

Women like him as a friend but there’s nothing challenging about him. He’s not exciting. He’s just normal, average. He’s just a good friend.

John was brought up with Disney cartoons; he learnt that Prince Charming should conquer a dragon in order to kiss the princess. But he’s ignoring the fact that in real life, the princess would run away with the dragon.

Anyway, it’s time to help him, isn’t it? If you see yourself in John, look no further and let yourself be guided.

The Solutions

Fortunately, his condition isn’t for life, John isn’t out of the game just yet. He’s going to get back up ad face the world to become the man he has always dreamt of being. A seducer like no other, who sleeps with the most beautiful women at school, work, in his sports club etc.

Here is his plan of action…

1) Stop being too nice to women

He must maintain his personality and be himself in order to seduce.

John doesn’t want to talk about Marie’s ex. It’s counter-productive because by doing that, he’s being a good friend. This kind of conversation can be left to her girlfriends. His role isn’t to be her therapist.

In this example, John positions himself as a leader and changes the subject because he doesn’t want to talk about it. He doesn’t let himself be guided and always has ideas to suggest.

Despite what extreme feminists might tell you, women generally like to go out with men who are slightly more dominant than themselves. Dominant doesn’t mean disrespectful, it means comfortable in his own skin, self-assured. A guy who knows what he’s doing.

This quality is inherent in self-confidence and that’s the characteristic that most women are looking for in a suitor, way before good looks.

2) Stop the dull conversations

Are there still people who say “hey, what’s up”, “how are you doing?” or “what are you up to?” in every internet conversation?

Personally I take offense every time someone uses this kind of over- politeness on Facebook Messenger.

Clearly we need a way to enter into and to leave a conversation, but John could make way more of an impact than that.

I’m sure that every time you ask somebody how they are, you pray they say that they’re fine, to avoid the negative conversation that would otherwise await you.

We must, therefore, think outside the box, show some originality in the hope of standing out from everyone else and being seductive.

John should use the power of “private jokes” between him and the girl so that he always has a subject to talk about, both by message and in real life.

Travel, music, film, the weather: or the art of talking about anything.

Context: John got a girl’s phone number in a bar, he contacts her next day.

He uses humour by bringing up a situation that only this girl can understand and therefore starts the conversation in a light-hearted and joking manner.

The complete opposite of the famous “Hey”

To stop being too nice and to banish dull conversations is the only way to become the Casanova that you aspire to be so much. But how do you do it?

The answer is in the 6 detailed chapters that follow.

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